Jul 4, 2023
Are you ready to revolutionize
your business policies and guidelines? In this episode, Anne and
Lau dive deep into the importance of setting firm and consistent
terms of service. They explore the world of contracts and
documentation, discussing the significance of having clear terms
and conditions, backing up legal documents both online and offline,
and the role of cultural differences in client interactions. Anne &
Lau are here to help you navigate the murky waters of friendships
and business, emphasizing the importance of professionalism and
drawing clear boundaries between work and pleasure. They discuss
setting expectations with employees and clients, and how to balance
paid work with volunteering or pro bono projects. Don't miss out on
these crucial insights that will set your business on a path to
success!
Transcript
It’s time to take your business to the next level, the BOSS level!
These are the premiere Business Owner Strategies and Successes
being utilized by the industry’s top talent today. Rock your
business like a BOSS, a VO BOSS! Now let’s welcome your host, Anne
Ganguzza.
Anne: Hey, hey everyone. Welcome to the VO BOSS podcast and the
BOSS superpower series with my wonderful, lovely host Lau
Lapides.
Lau: Hey everyone. Woo!
Anne: Happy weekend, Lau.
Lau: Happy Saturday.
Anne: Yeah.
Lau: Love that.
Anne: So, oh, BOSSes, our secret is out. Now, they know that we
record on Saturdays because honestly, it's about the only time I
have. to really record. But yeah, it's always wonderful to see you
on a Saturday morning, Lau.
Lau: And now they know for sure we're absolute
workaholics.
Anne:
(laughs)
For sure. That's a six day a week, almost seven.
Lau: Can't deny it.
Anne: Almost seven days a week. BOSS work. Anyways. Oh my goodness.
Speaking of having to be a BOSS, Lau, this week was trying for me.
As you know, I have multiple, and I always like to call them
tendrils
--
I don't know why I call them tendrils of my business. I'm sure
there's a much more professional name for them. But the components,
the other divisions, the other brands in my business, my VO Peeps,
this VO BOSS podcast, my Anne Ganguzza Voice Productions. Well, I
constantly have clients who try to, how shall I say, not adhere to
the terms of service or the guidelines or policies that I have in
place.
And I will tell you that even though I've been doing this for so
long, and I've created the policies much because I've been doing
this for so long, and I've run into every single
--
I'm so sorry, I couldn't make it to my session today because… or
I'm sorry, can I get that discount? I forgot to sign up under my
membership ID. I'm sorry, can I just get a refund? No
guys.(laughs),
I'm gonna say, I have terms of service built into everything and
guidelines or policies for a reason. And I think it would be a
great time to talk about that, Lau, because as business owners, we
need to really set forth policies so that we can run a business. I
mean, it is expected that you run businesses so that you can make a
profit, not lose your money.(laughs).
Lau: And I really do think that ignorance is bliss sometimes.
Meaning we can all live in a blissful place. I forget what they
call it. There's a legal term for that. But because I don't have
the knowledge and I don't know what it is, I can't be held to that.
I don't know if plausible deniability is that, but anyway, we'll
have to look that one up. We'll have to ask our attorney friends on
that. Plausible deniability.
Anne: Thank you for that big word of the day. Plausible
deniability.
Lau: But that's a biggie.
Anne: Yeah.
Lau: That's a biggie. Like, please excuse me, I didn't
know.
Anne: Yeah.
Lau: Or please excuse me. I didn't see it. I didn't read it, I
didn't catch it. And I think there's that huge gray zone in there
that business owners have to really take a step back and say, okay,
now we don't know if it's true or not. Literally we don't know if
they know it or they don't know it. We only know what they're
communicating to us.
Anne: Right, right.
Lau: That we have to make these judgment calls all the time. based
on the knowledge of that client. Is this someone I know? Is this
someone I don't know? You know, we kind of have to be judges in a
courtroom.
Anne: Yeah.
Lau: Now that I think about it.
Anne: We do.
Lau: Right?
Anne: And I need to stop beating myself up trying to figure out a
polite way. Well, how should I put it? Because whenever I get that
request, and I'm like, I could not have listed it in more places in
my website. I could not have spelled it out or sent you email
reminders enough. And I think what it is, I feel assaulted, or I
feel hurt that maybe they're not paying attention, or they're not
listening, or they're trying to take advantage. And I'm going to
say, in terms of policies and guidelines, every time you sign up
for a mailing list, or every time you have a client that you sign a
contract with, do you not read that contract?
I mean, if all of a sudden your voice is being used in perpetuity,
and you didn't know it because you didn't read the contract well, I
don't think that the company's gonna come back and say, well, I'm
sorry. Oh, let me take that off. No, I think that we have to be
BOSSes and be able to really set those guidelines. So for every
client that you create that's a new client, or even old clients,
make sure there are contracts and guidelines in
place.
Lau: I agree.
Anne: So that you can get paid fairly and compensated for your
time.
Lau: Yeah, I agree. And I think that your clients that are running
clients that are really credible, because you know them, you have
some history with them, you have time, that's a discussion that you
can have if you see fit that there is a real excuse, there's a real
reason why something is going awry. If it's someone brand new,
someone that you're really not familiar with, right, we always, I
always jump to the assumption that they either know and they don't
care, they didn't take the time to look at the material, or they
may intentionally be pulling something. And so I just kind of go
through those scenarios super quick in my mind, and then I just
land on something, and I go with it. Because I do think the bigger
your business gets, and the more complex your business gets, the
more problem solving and decision making that you have to
make.
And sometimes yes or no answers don't always work based on the
relationship you have with the client. So I'm with you all the way.
I think that establishing early that you have policies that are
there for a reason — I would also give people the reasoning behind
the policy as well. So whether you do it in writing, whether you
have a disclaimer, whether you have them opt in or sign something,
I think it's so important, because you can always rely on that. One
thing my dad always taught me is, think of your work as a legal
document at all times.
Anne: Yes.
Lau: So if this were in a court of law, how would it be viewed? Do
you have something physical in writing? Is it there? And does it
say what it needs to say? And so oftentimes that's gonna stand on
its own versus a verbal agreement or what you're just saying to
someone.
Anne: Yeah, absolutely. And it can hold up in court if it needs to,
right? So BOSSes out there, what is it that they need to establish
in terms of, what are we going to be sending to our clients or our
new clients? I think that some form of written communication,
documented is absolutely necessary. An email can serve as a
contract, an actual contract can serve as a contract. And very
clearly within that document should be the terms of service. What
can that client expect from you in return for this deal that you've
negotiated or this job that you've negotiated? You can expect to
receive audio files in MP3 format within 24 hours or 48 hours or
for this attached script.
And I think it needs to be spelled out specifically for first-time
clients, even more so. And it's easy to do that, I think, for first
time clients to just have everything already in
--
I have an email kind of attachment that I send Jodi Krangle, I know
she, God, for the longest time, she attaches the terms of service
or she's got a terms of service right on her website. And I also
have terms of services on my independent websites as well. But
she's had hers forever, and it's great. And it's what the client
can expect when they hire her for a job.
“You
can expect my very best work. You can expect that I will be
delivering files to you in wav format, blah, blah, blah.” And it
just steps it through. And it's a really wonderful way, I think, to
cover yourself and your business in case things go awry. And I
always say this, like, I probably said this multiple times, but I
am so proud in the 16-plus years that I've been working that I have
always gotten paid. I'm gonna knock here on
--
Lau: See, that's amazing.
Anne: — wood.
Lau: That is amazing. I'm amazed by that. To not get burned once or
twice is really a feat.
Anne: Yeah.
Lau: You're doing something right. That's great. I'm glad too you
talked about emails, because there was a day when email was too
new, it wasn't a valid form yet of a legal document. Now it's
absolutely legal documents. So you really gotta keep your folders
and make sure you don't delete them by accident. Because like if
you're in Gmail and you're doing a string and you delete the
string, it deletes the messages in the folder. and then all of a
sudden your legal documentation is gone. So I always say keep
paperwork.
Anne: Yeah.
Lau: Do both hard copy online, back it up. have it, have it, have
it. What we do is a letter of understanding or a letter of
agreement. So they sign that.
Anne: Statement of work.
Lau: It acts like a contract. It just says, hey, give us these
amount of business days to turn this around. Here's the format is
gonna
--
just like what you're saying, all of that is in front of people so
that they don't have the guesswork of that.
Anne: Yeah, right.
Lau: And then once in a while, there's a question or two, and
sometimes I run and I add it right into the letter of agreement.
Because I didn't think of it and it's important. Or it's an update
and it's very, very important to have it in there. So it's also
important that you are updating your legal documents. And I would
look at those every three to six months. Like I would not let that
go a year, because in a year, so much happens in our industry that
you just have to put in there
--
Anne: And follow up on them. I mean, you've signed a contract.
Don't let it be the be all, end all. Even if you've worked with
your agent and you expect your agent to take care of that. No;
follow up on every contract that you signed in. And you know what?
People may make fun of me that I never delete an email. But that is
one of the reasons, Lau, that I don't delete emails. So I always
have a trail of my client relations. And so if I did a job 10 years
ago, I can do a search in my Gmail for that client, and I will have
that job. I'll have all of the documentation. I'll have everything
in a folder, the contract signed, and like you said, I back up my
backups. And that allows me to always have recourse, including
audio files as well in case a client comes back to me years later
and says, hey, can you update this? Or we need a new something and
you've gotta try to match your files from what you've done
before.
So I definitely feel that if you're upfront and you are present and
you're really with new clients, enforcing that right away, it's not
gonna be such an issue as if you've had, let's say, clients who
like all of a sudden are kind of maybe slipping a little bit or
trying to maybe take advantage. And then it gets to the point where
I sit there and I go, oh my gosh, how am I gonna say to them, no,
you need to pay me. Why do I always feel so stressed about that?
And even after all these years, I mean, I still feel stressed. I'm
sorry. No, I cannot give you a refund. You are going to have to pay
for that. Yeah.
Lau: Well we talk about this all the time. I mean it's a
combination of being women. It's a combination of our generation.
It's also a cultural thing. You know? You and I are part of certain
ethnic minorities that are very much about caring and giving and
pleasing and cooking and doing and providing, which is not a bad
thing. It's a wonderful quality to have as a coach and as a
business owner. But you can get a little carried away. You have to
have a very fine line that be careful, if you go into the
friendship zone with clients and there's always that fine
line,
‘cause
iIf you do that and it feels good to do that. At least to me it
does. The paperwork can get a little muddy. The services can get a
little muddy for us, the water.
Anne: Excellent advice. Excellent advice.
Lau: You have to be very careful of that, like just keep it
straight in your mind. that you've got a structure, you've got a
service, you have to be paid for that. And if you're gonna be
friendly outside of that, okay, but that doesn't dismiss this. Now
you're feeling bad, is that guilt that many of us have for not
providing or making someone uneasy or whatever, not coming through
in the way we thought they wanted us to? We have to separate that.
Like we have to objectify It just
--
Anne: I have stop. I have to stop. I don't know why I go through it
all the time.
Lau: You have to not do that. We have to not do, we can't
emotionalize transactions because when we emotionalize
transactions, we give it more worth than it's worth. It's a
monetary transaction for a service. It shouldn't be an emotional
heart wrenching thing.
Anne: This is not personal, it's business. And I like that you said
watch out when it becomes friendship,
'cause
a lot of times if you have a relationship with a client, especially
for a long period of time — and I've had clients for years. And
I've had students for years too. And sometimes when that gets
closer to more of a friend level, then it's kinda like, oh, come
on. Can you let that slide? And my recourse is, and I think any
BOSS can say this, my recourse is, hey, it's nothing personal. It's
a business. I need to run my business. And if there are feelings
that get hurt, I mean honestly, so be it. Because right now I have
to look out for my business. It's just the way that it
is.
Lau: I also think too, the timing of that is really important. So I
was notorious for the first half of my business — because I was an
actor for many years turned into everything, director, producer,
coach. When you're an actor, you're never trained in the protocol
of the difference between your creative life, your business life,
and your personal life. Everything is just
--
Anne: Jumbled together.
Lau: — in there together, in there. Jumble, jumbled. So a lot of
our relationships, a lot of my closest friends are my people.
They're my coaches, they're people I work with, which I love. I
love it. But it causes a problem in that the clear lines of
delineation of like, you are offering a service, I'm paying you for
service, then it's done. And then we can still be friends, has to
be done upfront. Like you have to set the stage and set the
standards upfront and make sure it's okay. Especially if you have a
more personalized relationship with that person.
Anne: Yeah. Yeah.
Lau: Right? Just say, hey, I'm paying you for this hour where
you're a guest, whatever. Okay. Is this amount of money good for
you? Is it right for you? Yes. It's great. Good. Put it in writing.
Done. Done.
Anne: Exactly.
Lau: Let's go back and have our friendship. I think that's the
respect that we wanna have. And it's also very difficult tightrope
for a lot of people to walk. So when you're in doubt, I would say
keep business and pleasure separate, if you can. And with the few
people that you're very, very close with and work very closely —
like you and I are friends, right?
Anne: Yeah.
Lau: But I mean, if you ask me to do a service, if I ask you to do
a service, I wanna be able to pay you for that.
Anne: Yes. Absolutely.
Lau: I wanna be able to respect your time and your
knowledge.
Anne: And absolutely. And we've discussed doing projects together,
and both of of us respect each other's business enough to say,
okay, let's see how we can make this work in a business sense. And
then once we're done with that, that's it. We're done. So we
respect each other enough to know to come at it as a business. And
we both are business owners long enough to know
that.
Lau: And that's kind of a gift, isn't it, Anne?
Anne: Yeah, it really is.
Lau: Not a lot of people can do that.
Anne: I'm very appreciative and grateful.
Lau: We're very nuanced in that way to be able to have close
friends. Some of my coaches now that work at my studio are 30-year
friends.
Anne: Yeah.
Lau: Like friends and like family. And I'm very careful. I wanna
make sure I do the right thing. I wouldn't pay them for their time.
I want it to be going great. I don't wanna say, oh, they're friend,
they'll take it for nothing. They'll take it for less.
They'll
--
be careful of that because then you run the risk of corroding the
business relationship and the friendship.
Anne: Sure. Yeah. And I was just gonna say, employees, like your
coaches and my employees, it's one of those things where, yeah, I
mean I've had, gosh, I've had employees for I believe over 10 years
now. And so that's a long time to have employees. And so you do get
close. And I always have to approach it
--
I think Gary Vaynerchuk said it, but it's something that I always
kind of figured out. Like no one will ever be more excited about
your business than you. Right?
And so when you have employees, like your employees are not gonna
be more excited about your business than you. And so therefore, if
you have problems with employees, right? Let's say you need to
maybe fire an employee or you need to talk to them to say that your
work is not up to the standards or the way it used to be — that is
always a tough thing to do. But I think you have to do it because
again, it is a business. You're paying for a service. And if that
service is not being fulfilled, then you have to be able to be BOSS
enough to talk about that and not feel like you're jeopardizing a
friendship.
Lau: That's right. And you have to delineate very fast the
difference between pro bono expected volunteer work, which is set
up that way and work, which has monetary compensation. I mean,
that's where my husband came in handy years ago because I was an
artist who
--
I was a director and I was directing for years, like directing for
free while I was doing every--
teaching, and at a certain point he said, and luckily he's, he's a
CFO, he's an accountant. He said, what are you doing? Don't you see
you're giving away value and you're not getting it in return? And I
said, I'm getting a lot of return. I love what I do. People
appreciate me. I'm getting a lot of accolades. He said, no, no, no,
no, no, no. I mean true value, like get paid. You see? Now I can't
say that it's the difference between men and women,
'cause
I think, you know, a lot of women are great and smart and think
that way too. But it just reminded me that, oh, I made it very
fluffy. I made it very gray. I made it very nuanced when it wasn't.
It was like, I'm doing a job.
Anne: Right.
Lau: There should be an understanding and then you should get paid.
Unless it's volunteer. If it's volunteer, then you walk in knowing
it's volunteer, you accept it and it's okay. That's fine. Right?
But we're building businesses.
Anne: Yeah, absolutely.
Lau: How many times have you thought or said, I don't run a
charity?
Anne: Oh, in my head all the time.
Lau: We give to charity a lot. But this isn't a
charity.
Anne: Yeah. I'm like, I don't understand people. I just don't
understand people. Like what do they expect? Do they not read
things that I — do they not read policies on websites? Do they not
read emails? Do those clients not understand?
Lau: Yes, yes, and yes.
(laughs)
Anne: And I'll just shake my head and just,
yeah.
Lau: Oh wait, can I add one more thing to that
thought?
Anne: Yes, yes please.
Lau: And this is all the psychological stuff that we talk about.
Okay. So whatever happens, happens; you either agree to something
you shouldn't have. Someone burned you, didn't pay you, something
happened that shouldn't have happened. I say, forgive yourself.
Forgive that person and walk away a whole lot smarter. Not to say
you shouldn't fight back or if you need to take them to court and
it's fine, whatever. I'm saying psychologically, don't do the
damage to yourself and rip yourself down and blame yourself and do
all
--
don't do that because we need to make those mistakes. We need to
make those errors so that we can fix it. And we know how to run
better and smoother and cleaner. If we didn't do that, we wouldn't
really know. We would never really — there's no checks and
balances, in other words. Right? So that's a moment of checks and
balance. And don't get bitter. Get better.
Anne: Ooh, I love that. Don't get bitter. Get better. I love that.
Yes, I do.
Lau: It's easy to get really like cringey and toxic. It feels so
good to get like
--
don't do it because your whole spirit of your business will go
downhill if you start to do that.
Anne: Yeah. I don't know. For me it's just like, don't be putting
that toxicity out on the internet. Try not to spread that around. I
mean, unless of course you're trying to get action from some
company that's clearly done undone you some injustice. But I still
say be careful.
Lau: Anne, it reminds me
(laughs)
— you remember way back when in the dating scene when you'd meet
someone and they would just unload everything on you about their
last relationship.
Anne: And then I'd be like, okay.
Lau: And be like
--
Anne: Bye!
Lau: And be like, I got, I gotta work a little bit. You start to
hold it. You carry it, it gets in the molecules of your muscles.
And then it starts to show in your business. So we have to be super
aware of that.
Anne: So BOSSes, emails, terms of service, make yourself a terms of
service. There's lots of examples out there. You can just search
for voiceover terms of service or voiceover statement of work or
what else too is a great book, and I'm just gonna promote this
guy
'cause
I love Rob Sciglimpaglia,
(Lau
laughs) VO Legal. I love him. He's got templates that you can use.
He's my lawyer and I'm proud to say that. He has literally been by
my side through every contract that I've ever had a question with.
So highly, highly recommend him. So make sure when you're working
with a new client, you have those terms of
service.
On your website, it's a great idea to put a terms of service on
your website. You'll notice that most companies do these days,
right. And so if you wanna be seen as a professional service or
professional business, then get yourself a page that has terms of
service. Those are templates that you can get online, and you can
have your web person throw one up on there. It's like it can be on
the footer of your webpage, terms of service. And it's really
simple and you cover yourself in that way. And if you happen to be
selling online, if you have, like I have multiple places where I
sell online, make sure that those terms of services are there as
well.
Lau: You took the words right outta my mouth
'cause
I was just about to say, get a really great attorney. Like if you
can get an entertainment attorney, even better. But have an
attorney on your side, because you can take boiler plates off
online, which is fine, but you wanna, you wanna know
--
Anne: Sometimes you just don’t know.
Lau:
--
melt it. And you wanna make sure the language is accurate to what
you do, you know, and not generic. It's gotta really cover exactly
what you do. So it's worth an hour or two of sitting with a pro, a
couple hundred bucks to say, yeah, you can say this. Yeah, you
can't say this. Yeah. This is what this means. I think it's really
worth doing that.
Anne: And by the way, VO BOSS has interviewed Rob Sciglimpaglia
more than once. Make sure you check out the episodes. I've got
links to his book. I've got links to templates. And also with the
new up and coming synthetic voice, I'm gonna say that there are
companies, I work from the organization called the Open Voice
Network. I'm on the synthetic voice study group. The whole focus of
this group is to come up with policies and guidelines and standards
for the AI community in working with synthetic voices. And so Rob
has also been on a committee to help with that. And also I will
give a shout-out to NAVA, the National Association of Voice Actors.
They've got lots of templates and great stuff on their website.
I've also worked with them as well with synthetic voices. And so
there's lots of places out there that you can go for
help.
But I always say, yes, you cannot beat a lawyer because yeah, if
you go get the template and you put it up on your webpage,
sometimes that might be something that doesn't apply to your
business there. So,it's so worth your investment to have somebody.
And I think Rob, he also has his service where he's on monthly
retainer, which is a new service that he just, yeah, put
out.
Lau: That's awesome.
Anne: BOSSes, there's no reason why you shouldn't be prepared for
when things don't go the right way, that you can be fairly
compensated for your time and your efforts in your
business.
Lau: Yeah. I wanna throw in one more thought, Anne. If it's
appropriate, make sure you're disclaimers are there and make sure
they're accurate. So when you're qualifying your language, you're
qualifying your business, make sure the disclaimers say exactly
what they need to say because — and I know Rob would talk about
this a lot — specific words like will and may are totally different
things. I am going to do this with you and for you. I may do this
with you for you. So there's a lot of open door words, there's a
lot of closed door words that you always wanna have — I hate to say
an out, it sounds negative. I don't mean it that
way.
Anne: No, I, I got that. Yeah.
Lau: You wanna have flexibility and leeway in the language so when
someone comes back to you and says, well, you promised me this, you
guaranteed me this, you can say, I didn't promise this, and I
didn't guarantee this. I said…
Anne: As you can see, and I'm constantly quoting my terms of taking
screenshots of it.
Lau: And you rely on it, don't you, Anne? Like a little
--
Anne: As you can see — yes. Like put a link. As you can see my
terms of service on my webpage, or as per our previous email, you
can see quote, here's where we specified the terms of the
job.
Lau: Yes. I got three words for you. And I'm not a lawyer and I
don't give legal advice, but three words I love that come from my
lawyers, my business, and I know you know this so much, look how
excited I get — ready, ready?
Anne: Yes.
Lau: Ready? Subject to change.
Anne: Ah, yes. Always.
Lau: I just turned into Marilyn Monroe for a moment
there.
Anne: That's a lovely
--
Lau: Because it's true.
Anne: — lovely set of words there.
Lau: It's life. It's called life. And you wanna be able to legally,
do the best you can 100%. But just in case something happens, you
don't wanna be on the hook.
Anne: Yeah, absolutely. Absolutely. Great, great conversation, Lau.
I love it.
Lau: Love it. So necessary.
Anne: BOSSes. Get out there, get out there and research and educate
yourself on terms of service and go set up some terms of service.
Get yourself a template that you can use in your email and
something you can post on your website and yeah. Good stuff. All
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Lau: Bye!
Anne: Bye!
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